"Your value does not diminish based on the inability of others to see how much you are really worth. So stay away from all those negative people who do not allow you to move forward in your plans and achieve your goals. Above that you are worth a lot"
Most of the time we get stuck thinking about what others think of us rather than what we know about ourselves. What others say and do is only a projection of what they feel, but not of what others truly are.
We must learn to value ourselves but also to discern about what others do and say, and not allow an opinion to make us feel diminished, truncate our desire to do something or better still not allow any of it to affect us.
In principle it is always easier to say things than to do them, but again we talk about "Practice" of feeling comfortable in the face of discomfort, that we can only control what is inside us and what we do and say not what others do or say.
- Keep watching without reacting.
- Staring at the person who is speaking or acting.
- Remaining silent is a powerful weapon to show our disagreement.
- If the person insists, walk away.
- Avoid at all costs staying for long periods near conflicting and reactive people who also tend to be negative ("Toxic")
We must always be the person who infects with his education, behaviour, mediation, respect, tolerance and good manners in general, that is without allowing himself to be attacked or offended, just walk away when the situation gets out of control
"Be the change you want to see in the world" Apply this to every situation. Do not give advice that is not asked for, listen with real interest and attention.
Stay reflective, and emphasizing: What someone does and says is only their opinion and not reality.
Elvin Alfredo Silva
